Updated: Mar 23, 2020
Set yourself Free. Love exists only where freedom exists. Create relationships that are equal. There you will find love.
Are you deferring to someone in your life?
When we relinquish control of our lives to someone else, we also relinquish responsibility for our happiness, our well-being, our joy, our growth, and our choices. It is healthy and normal to want to be nurtured. A partner can make our lives easier, take some load off. We are sent helpers, friends, and lovers. The Divine arm of love reaches out through people, through our loved ones, to bring us the support we need. Opening to and receiving that support are essential to well-being, to joy, to happiness. But there's a difference between receiving help and support and being controlled. There's a difference between surrendering to love and surrendering to control.
Relinquishing control can happen subtly, but its effects are powerful.
We begin to believe we've lost our freedom. We begin to believe that someone has taken it away. We feel stifled, repressed. Don't make other people responsible for delineating your boundaries. It's your job to take responsibility for your choices, your comings, your goings, you well-being, your path. If you feel you've relinquished your power, your freedom, take it back. Take responsibility for yourself.You don't have to defer anyone. The times of being controlled are past. You can accept nurturing without being manipulated. You can accept love without being controlled.
The process of moving from what we don't know to what we are to learn is a process that can be trusted. It's how we grow and change. It's ok to not know. It's ok to let ourselves move into knowing. The lesson is trusting that we'll know when it's time.
Sometimes we don't know what we want, what's next, or what we think our lives will look like down the road. That's okay. Sometimes the reason we don't know is that it would be too difficult, too confusing for us right now. It would take us out of the present moment, cause us worry and fuss about how we could control it or what we have to do to make it happen. Knowing would make us afraid. Put us on overload. Take us away from now.
Sometimes our souls know, but it's just not time for our conscious minds to know yet. Sometimes knowing would take us out off the very experience we need to go through to discover the answer we're looking for, and sometimes the process of learning to trust, the process of going through an experience and coming to trust that we will ultimately discover our own truth, is more important than knowing.
The art of Self-Mastery is a passage to universal love and light.
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